Proper Penetration Preparation

I use a couple of different items whenever I'm going to have anal penetration.

First, I use an organic anal relaxing spray like the one in the picture.  This one says "for women" but that is just marketing - the one for men has the same things in it.

When you spray this on you usually feel a warming sensation and it may even be tingly.  This passes rather quickly leaving you more aroused than when you started.  For a lot of women it makes them instantly wetter.  This takes 5 to 10 to go into full effect.

After that's feeling good on the exterior,  I move on to using a lube for the interior.  It also has organic relaxers.  Work this into the butt and give it a few minutes to do it's magic.

Neither of these numb so you won't be in danger of getting hurt and not knowing it.  Don't get them on your pussy or cock - or mouth - it won't hurt but it will feel funny and might make it harder to climax.

I also find that I like to add a bit more wetness to the mix as well.  That's when I mix in the Jo H2O lubricant.  I like mixing the water based lube in... it's also handy for more sensitive vaginal sex:)

If you have some lubes and products you like feel free to share - these are what have worked best for me:)











4 Responses to Proper Penetration Preparation

  1. harry miller August 19, 2011 at 10:01 am #

    My girlfriend and i first dated when she was 14 and i was 15. Its been 20yrs and we r back together. We were each others firsts. And recently she let me have her chocalate cherry lol! That was awesome we used astro glide and alot of patience! 🙂

    • admin August 19, 2011 at 2:32 pm #

      Wow what a story! Thanks for sharing and congratulations:)

  2. Richie May 3, 2012 at 11:31 pm #

    Never used lube before so I am a complete dumbo at this. Which one is better? Water based or silicon or oil? I am trying to find information for both pussy & ass-play. Is there any that can be used overall instead of juggling with a cocktail mixture?
    Looking for some clean information on these things.

    Thank you

    • admin May 8, 2012 at 2:48 pm #

      If you just want to use one lube, use a water based one because those are more friendly for vaginas. Water based is fine for anal too but sometimes people prefer silicone because it is generally thicker and sometimes longer lasting.

      The most important thing is to experiment with different things to figure out your personal preferences.

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